What Happens When Two Mangliks Marry Each Other?

Well, your kundali says you are manglik. And guess what? The girl you have been set up with is also Manglik. And suddenly your family is freaking out, aunties are calling, and someone is talking about a Kumbh Vivah. But before all this happens, let us look into what happens when two Mangliks get married and whether you should be worried about it or not. 

Let's begin with the basics since many of us don't really understand what this word means. In Vedic astrology, a Manglik is a person in whom the planet Mars (Mangal in Sanskrit) is placed in certain houses of his/her birth chart (kundali). These houses are the 1st, 2nd, 4th, 7th, 8th, or 12th. This is known as Mangal Dosha or Manglik Dosha.

Mars is a fiery planet. It symbolizes vitality, passion, anger, drive, and determination. When Mars is placed in these houses of the chart, it can make the personality of the person a bit more intense and can make marriage and relationships a bit more difficult. It's like having a loud volume setting in your personality. This is not a bad thing; it just means you need to have your volume set right. 

Let's get the most important thing out of the way. If a Manglik man and woman are married to each other, the Mangal Dosha is said to get neutralized. This phenomenon is known as "Dosha Samya" in Vedic astrology, and it literally means the doshas are equal.

Here's an example. If you have ever cooked with two spicy spices and added them together and noticed that rather than being too spicy, the food actually tastes better and more balanced, that is what this is all about. When two equally strong Mars energies are combined, they cancel each other out in a way that is not possible with a Manglik and non-Manglik pairing.

This is why traditional families and experienced astrologers prefer a manglik marrying manglik over a manglik marrying a non-manglik. It has the same energy from both sides, so both partners don't overwhelm each other.

This is the aspect that people do not always discuss but is the most fascinating. People who are Mangliks tend to have certain personality traits because of the strong influence of Mars in their horoscopes. They are ambitious, stubborn, passionate, and independent. They can also be somewhat impatient and temperamental.

But what happens when you put one Manglik together with a non-Manglik? The non-Manglik partner may see the Manglik person as too needy, too emotional, or too aggressive. They may be confused by their partner's reaction. That's the clash traditional astrology speaks of.

Yet, according to astrology, the two Mangliks in a marriage are something special. They get each other. They understand the need for space, for independence, for passion. They are not too much for each other because they are on the same wavelength. It is like two people who can run at 100 miles an hour, finding a match.

This is where it becomes more complex, and a kundali analysis is important. Not all Mangliks are created equal. Someone with a 7th or 8th house Mars has a more intense Mangal Dosha than someone with a 2nd or 12th house Mars. So when we match two Mangliks, the astrologer also considers whether the doshas are of equal strength.

So if one person has a strong Mars and the other has a weak Mars, cancellation of the dosha might not be total. It's like two people pushing on either side of a wall. If one person is stronger, it still doesn't cancel out. That's why when we analyze Manglik marriage effects, we look at the whole chart, not just if both the bride and groom have Mangal Dosha.

This is an interesting fact that most people know about but don't really understand. In Vedic astrology, Mars, as a planet, reaches adulthood at age 28. What does this mean? It means that the angry, impulsive, and reactive energy of Mars calms down at this age. The energy is still present but more regulated.

For example, a Manglik at 22 might be easily provoked to argue. At 32, they might have learned to control it. That is why you might hear Manglik Dosha is less severe as a person gets older. It does not mean it will be completely resolved, but the person will simply be able to manage their own Mars energy in a more mature way.

This is significant to note because Manglik marriage effects don't have to be permanent. And they change as the individuals change. 

The answer is no, but it depends on your overall chart. When the dosha cancels out due to both partners being Manglik, traditional astrology suggests that there is no need for any specific remedies to cancel the Mangal dosha. The union is considered auspicious.

But some families still opt for rituals such as reciting Hanuman Chalisa on Tuesdays, offering prayers at Navagraha temples, or abstaining from food on Tuesdays. These are optional and have more to do with cultural practice than the astrology of a Manglik-Manglik match. There is no harm in them, but they are not required if both the partners are Manglik.

What is still relevant in a Manglik-Manglik marriage astrology match is the overall Guna Milan or compatibility (score), Venus and the 7th house lord's strength, and what the Dasha was at the time of marriage. The Mars dosha may have been mitigated, but the chart still speaks. 

There are some truly outdated beliefs floating around that cause unnecessary fear and family drama. Let us address a few of them honestly.

• Myth 1: Manglik individuals cause the death of their spouse.
  This is the most damaging myth. There's no astrological foundation for this myth, and it has resulted in psychological harm for those who actually began to feel cursed. Mangal Dosha is not about life or death; it's about compatibility of temperaments and energies.
  

• Myth 2: Once Manglik, always Manglik.
  Some believe that once you have Mangal Dosha in your kundali, you are Manglik, always. But there are a number of combinations in the birth chart that neutralize the dosha. And if the dosha is present, a Manglik-Manglik marriage takes care of the main issue with Dosha Samya.
  

• Myth 3: All Mangliks are aggressive or difficult to live with.
  His myth is more about Mars' energy and not astrology. Mars energy, when properly understood, creates highly motivated, passionate, and hard-working partners. It is not the energy that causes problems; it is the imbalance of the energy and when it is not understood by the partner. 

Marriage compatibility is a beautiful and complicated issue. Manglik Dosha is just one piece of it. Even with the best astrological alignment, a marriage is also based on communication, emotional maturity, shared values, and respect for each other.

The Mangal Dosha is only given a weightage of 20-30% in the compatibility assessment today. Mental compatibility, financial compatibility, the strength of the 7th house, Venus' placements in the horoscopes, and the ongoing Dasha periods are all very important.

So if you and your partner are Manglik and the family astrologer gives you the thumbs up on overall compatibility, you are more than likely to have a harmonious marriage. The manglik-manglik match is one of the most compatible Vedic matches when combined with a positive match of charts.